Secret Santa: fair rules and gifts that suit anyone
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Short answer
Agree on one spending limit before names are drawn, often around $25 at work, and buy something small, useful and neutral: a treat, a desk item or something cozy. Include a gift receipt.
Rules that keep it fun
Most Secret Santa complaints come from mismatched expectations. Settle these before names are drawn.
- One firm budget that everyone sticks to, neither under nor over.
- A reveal date and a way to hand gifts over for anyone working remotely.
- An optional wish list or three 'likes' per person.
- No joke gifts that could embarrass someone, and nothing alcoholic at work.
Choosing for someone you do not know well
Go for things that get used up or used daily and that do not depend on taste: good chocolate or tea, a quality notebook, a warm pair of socks, a small plant. Ask a colleague who knows them better for one hint if you are stuck.
Avoid strong scents, clothing sizes and anything that assumes something about their home, diet or beliefs.